Pyramids, friends, friend cakes

Speaking of friendship. The brilliant and hilarious Shawn Powers, a couple of years ago:

It’s those people that make me both happy and sad in equal measures. I want them to be in my top cake layer, but I don’t interact with them often enough for me to feel comfortable leaning on them. They don’t know me well enough (very likely my fault) to lean on me when things get difficult. I WOULD totally be there if/when they need me, and I’m pretty sure they would be there for me — but again, I’m so bad at letting my guard down, that most people I consider friends don’t fully know me, and in turn, I don’t fully know them.

I think about this kind of thing a lot.

Read the whole thing, I would recommend.